As a woman who woke up in sixth grade with a full B cup—I totally hear you and validate all your concerns. In ballet with a C cup I was asked to step aside in an audition, told I couldn't go pro unless I traded my barre for a pole. One of many times I was dismissed for my now DDs. The gene that gives you good tits needs to include extra thick skin. BTW the underwires on bras only made bigger, snap right under the boob midpoint not something my ittty bitty chested friends ever experience. LOL